In response to the early criticisms of the trait approach, theorists began to research leadership as a set of behaviors, evaluating the behavior of successful leaders, determining a behavior taxonomy, and identifying broad leadership styles.  David McClelland , for example, posited that leadership takes a strong personality with a well-developed positive ego. To lead, self-confidence and high self-esteem are useful, perhaps even essential. 
I loved this Kris! In response to an above comment, technically there is no “ Good ” anyone, because Christ is the only Good person to have walked this ...
In our busy society, it can be difficult to create times to get together with people. But if we take advantage of the common activities and interests we have with others, we can fit the time for friendship into our schedules. If you and a friend both like to exercise, work out together. If you both like to read, go to the bookstore together to pick out your next selection, grab some coffee, and talk about the last book you read. If your kids are your common interest, consider getting together on a regular basis to pray for them. The point is to allow your common interests to draw you together.
Good evening Lady Evangelist Mariam.
Continue praying to God. He will direct you.
Where are you in Nigeria?
My grandmother once told me, “When somebody backs themselves into a corner, look the other way until they get themselves out, and then act as though it never happened.” Allowing someone to save face in this way, and not reminding them of what they already know is not their most intelligent behavior, is an act of great kindness. This is possible when you realize that people typically behave in such ways because they are in a place of momentary suffering. They react to their own thoughts and feelings, and their behavior often has nothing to do with you.
Regardless of how much fuel you have stored, it’s still not advised to attempt a multi-state travel excursion to your final bug out location. Traveling that far takes a lot of time ( especially if you are avoiding the jammed interstate system ), and it adds lots of potential run-ins with unfriendlies along the way.