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One of the key messages that emerge from research on the teen brain is that as parents it is imperative we have realistic expectations of our children to foster a positive relationship with them. Appreciating that they don’t have the necessary hardware to behave as we would, understanding that until they develop that hardware their judgment, for example, is going to be impaired, makes them – and their foibles – easier to tolerate.